Games & Ways to Play

Once you are ready to lock up, you have many ways to play! Whether you are solo or with one or more partners, there are a lot of ways to make this fun for all participants. Feel free to use any of these to enjoy yourself!

Also, take a peek at the bottom for playing with chastity over long distance.

Solo Games

It is sometimes difficult for a submissive to find a Dominant who will indulge a chastity fetish. It seems that a female Dominant keyholding for a male submissive is the rarest combination (Although there are many women who do enjoy this type of BDSM relationship! It's just that there are far more submissive males into this than dominant females). Here are some fun games that can be played solo that still allow proper denial of a submissive's pleasure.

Frozen Solid

In this game, you take the keys for your chastity device and put them in some type of water container, then place it in the freezer. The larger the container, the better, as it will take longer to escape! The water container can be placed in a freezer or be left outside during a cold winter night.

For those who are very daring, you can use a rain barrel or large container to collect rainwater and leave the key at the bottom of the container. Especially fun to use at the beginning or end of the winter when the temperature is all over the place!

Fitness for Freedom!

One way to keep motivation for physical fitness is to take control of the brain's greatest reward system; orgasms. In this scenario, the dominant can set fitness goals for the submissive to complete. At each milestone, the submissive can be rewarded with some form of pleasure and/or freedom. This not only helps the submissive improve their health, but also gives the dominant a sexier submissive to play around with.

Snail Mail!

For those that are feeling confident in the postal service, drop your keys in an envelop or small package and mail them to yourself. Often times it takes a few days for a package to arrive, but if you time it right you can have a weekend or some inclement weather get in the way of your freedom. Better hope they don't lose your package!

To add an even wilder twist to this, send the package to a friend or family's residence and ask to pick it up at their earliest convenience.

Mystery Combination!

Using one of the combination locks from the Accessories & Toys section, a solo-player can blindly set a combination on a lock without looking, shut the lock, and start guessing. The more digits in the lock, the longer it takes to figure out the combo on average! A 3-digit lock should take about an hour of constantly guessing, a 4 digit lock should take about 10 hours, and if you can find a 5-digit lock it will take upwards of 100 hours or a little over 4 days of constantly guessing! If you account for 8 hours of sleep each night, that allows 16 hours of guessing daily and it would still take over 6 days!!! If you allow 2 hours of constant guessing per day that's 50 days to guess every combination!!!!!

Spare Keys

Give a friend a set of spare keys to hold onto for emergencies. Put the lock keys on the key chain and ask them to hold onto it for emergencies. See how long you can go without having to fake losing your keys and getting locked out!

For an extra boost, see if you can find a way to quickly get somewhere private and take the lock off. If you can't, give them back the keys right then and there, and realize how you held the keys in your hand, but never used them to unlock. You were so close!

Keyholding Sites

A solo-players or partners can use the combination locks from the Accessories & Toys section to blindly upload a photo of a randomly set combination and be at the mercy of a website that specializes in withholding said photo for a set amount of time. Some of these sites allow the user to share a friend link online and let friends decide to either extend or shorten their chastity sentence. More often than not, sharing a friend link adds time!

Location, Location, Location!

This one is really easy. The easiest way to keep keys out of reach is to leave them somewhere you can't immediately visit, such as:

Leave the keys at work on a Friday when your office is closed for the weekend
Leaving the keys at a friend's or family's residence that you might not always visit
Place the keys at a very far away location such as an hour drive away
Hide the keys in a capsule in a park or the woods that takes a while to reach

Games with Partner(s)

Having a partner or partners in chastity play can make everything significantly better. In addition, the Dominant can reap the rewards of focused attention, the ability to assign chores, controlling the pleasure of a submissive, and denying one of their pleasure while demanding their own pleasure. Here are some games to consider while playing with one or more partners.

Gambling

The Dominant can leave it up to chance at how long the submissive stays locked. By making up fun games, there is no limit to how fun/cruel the rules can get! Here are some ideas:

Make a custom roulette wheel with wheeldecide.com
Use dice to determine the duration of the lockup. Could be hours, days, weeks, months, or whatever you want!
Placing marbles in a bag could work nicely. Start with 4 black marbles and 1 white marble. Every day, allow the submissive to choose a marble from the bag. If he or she gets black, the marble is removed and he or she can try again the next day. When he or she gets a white marble, reward him or her and put all the marbles back in. Maybe consider adding another black marble every time the submissive wins? Allow the submissive a ruined orgasm in exchange for not putting in another black marble upon winning maybe?
Every night, allow the submissive out of chastity to play. Edge the submissive by bringing him or her to the brink of an orgasm, and then stop and flip a coin or roll a die. If the result wins, allow the submissive to orgasm. If not, calm down the submissive and put him or her back in chastity.

Make it a Quickie!

In this scenario, the submissive is given a certain amount of time to achieve orgasm, such as 5 minutes. For every increment of time beyond that, say one minute, the submissive adds that many days to his or her chastity sentence for the next round. This can be adjusted as desired.

Want to go a step further? Consider using numbing cream to limit how much the sub can feel during this free time. The cream activates almost immediately, and lasts about 20 minutes.. so a 19 minute time interval sounds just about right :)

Hide and Seek

The Dominant in this scenario will hide the key somewhere and allow the submissive to try and find it in a set amount of time. The Dominant may hide the keys somewhere very difficult to find and give hints, or the Dominant may hide it somewhere in plain site but blindfold and limit of the submissive can move around in the house. The Dominant may also not hide the key at all if desired.

Chores

The Dominant may decide to give a list of chores for the submissive to complete in a set amount of time. If the submissive succeeds, he or she is given a reward such as a release. If he or she fails, they are left locked up.

Other ideas involving this scenario:

Dress the submissive up as a french maid or some other form of feminized clothing
Make the set of tasks humiliating in some way
For every increment of time it takes the submissive to complete the tasks in excess, a certain amount of time may be added to the submissive's lockup time

Spare Keys

Got a bunch of spare keys and have no idea what to do with them? Toss them all into a bag and mix them up alongside the winning key! Treat this just like the marbles game. Maybe one key per day until the winning key is found? Do you replace or remove the keys once picked? Could the dominant just decide to dump all the removed keys back into the bag at any point? The choice is yours!

Rationed Out

In this scenario, the Dominant decides to give the submissive a certain number of orgasms permitted for the week, month, year or lifetime! The submissive then can decide how he or she uses these rationed out permissions. The submissive may decide to use all of them upfront, or spread them out over the time period. To add variety to this, the Dominant may choose to use points instead of one unit to represent an orgasm. The Dominant may also choose to make rules that impact the value of the rations, such as:

Some days are "double" the point cost, some days are "half off"
The submissive may use multiple points to "buy" special favors or permissions
Points may be added or taken away for good or bad behavior, or just because the Dominant "feels like it"
The submissive can earn "interest" for carrying over points from one time period to another
The submissive can wager points in a gambling sense, especially if the submissive is willing to play with the odds against him or her. Maybe the Dominant is really good at a video game and wants to make things interesting?
Points can be used as a time factor, so the submissive may choose to only use 3 points for 3 minutes to achieve an orgasm instead of 10 points for 10 minutes

Misc. Games & Ways to Play

How to Play with Chastity Over Long Distance

This miniature tutorial will show you how to play with Chastity over a long distance without mailing keys or making the keys unavailable for a lengthy amount of time.

Materials Needed:

Chastity Device
Mini-Padlock with Key
Realtor's Lockbox
Messaging app such as text messages, WhatsApp, Snapchat etc. that can send photos

The Dominant and submissive take the following steps:

The submissive sets the combination of the Realtor's Lockbox to a random combination without looking
The submissive sends photos of the lock combo to the Dominant without looking. The submissive repeats sending photos until the Dominant confirms he or she can read the combination clearly.
The submissive deletes all photos from the application photo folder and deletes the conversation with the Dominant, so no evidence of the combination is left on the submissive's phone. (your experience may vary based on the app being used. Snapchat auto-deletes so that's one way to be sure the submissive loses the combo)
The submissive closes the Realtor's Lockbox with the keys inside, then scrambles the combination up (again, without looking at the combo)
From this point, the submissive is locked without knowing the combination, and the Dominant has full control over the submissive's access to the keys

And that's it!